i told myself that i wouldnt be THAT person who is obsessed about getting married. Buttttt i feel as if that is slowly changing. i mean, come on!
IM GETTING MARRIED. And if we are really keeping track, i get married in like eight months. im not sweating, you are… although i was told that it’s doable, but that was also told to me by a wedding planner. (no, we dont have a wedding planner, youre looking at her;) ).
But hey, i love planning. literally its my dream to be a planner of some sort.
enough kelsey, let me hear how nick did it!!
Okay fine – here it is!
now you gotta be in the mindset of it being labor Day weekend and this point we were like two weeks away from heading to germany. we had talked about doing a little weekend trip either going to MN or chicago. if youre thinking “why Chicago?” well, chicago holds a little piece life for both nick and i.
nick and i started dating april of 2012 and yes, we were still in high school. ugh I know, so cute lol. well being 18 both of had no idea what we wanted to do, all we knew was, i was staying here in milwaukee and nick was headed to columbia for school. we spent everyday during that summer together, like everyday. but soon came fall, which meant this newly, fresh and young love could only go on during the weekends. yeah, we texted, called and skyped but still…being 18 that was hard!! not to over bore you with details, nick made the decision to move back home once the fall semester was over. columbia wasn’t for him and me being me, I was SO excited to have him home. no more going weeks without seeing each other.
we then both were at uwm, i was still living at home and he was down on the east side. with him being back home, that just meant more time we got to spend together. i would say that we learned a lot one another. Let’s just say – i learned to love whiskey during this time in my life lol.
youd think that we wouldve moved in with one another because “that’s what you do once youve been dating for threeish years”. Yeah not really, long story short, nicks house started on fire, while we were in it. Yes everyone was safe but all of nicks stuff was destroyed. this meant, he moved back in with his parents, and me, well i was still living with my dad.
well im not going to into it but i would say living at home didn’t last for long. long story short, we had gotten coffee one morning and made the decision to move together.
it wasn’t easy but it felt right. which i think thats the biggest thing to feel. nowwwwwww fast forward to 2019 and us planning a day trip to chicago was here.
before you ask, i dont think i really had an idea what was going to happen. all i knew was that we were going to walk near the marina because nick said “he’s never done it before” so me being down for whatever.
i have to say that i thought it was a little weird that he was wearing a button down shirt because thats something he never does unless we are going some where nice or to work. so i follow suit and dressed nice myself. monkey see, monkey do? Lol
annnnnd then we get to chicago and we park in our normal spot, we start to walk to marina. let me tell you it was a lot warmer outside than i thought so this whole walk i was waiting to stop and cool down for a bit. well, we kept walking and walking and during all of this, nick kept walking behind me. now, he HATES when i walk fast but hey, i have long legs so i just naturally walk fast. but at this time, i didnt think anything of it, i just thought to myself “well im going to keep going”. little did i know, he was trying to find a spot to ask me but it was so busy he didnt see anything he liked.
mind you, we are still walking at this point, and still sweating. me being me, of course i didnt plan anything else so im trying to come up with that we should do next because as far as i knew, this walk was the only thing we had planned and the marina was ending. THEN nick suggested that we head to this little grassy area to “take a break”. as we stop, we both stood there and looked out into the water (no, it was as romantic as you think, i was balls deep in sweat and was just happy to stop walking). as we were looking out into the water, nick starts to say “when i lived down here seven years ago, i used to walk this very same path. and when i walked this path, i would think about how i knew i wanted to marry you”. yes – at this point i was like “OMG OMG OMG THIS IS HAPPENING”. nick did say some other stuff and i cant really remember BUT then we got down on one knee, pulled up his pant leg and unrolled the ring box from his sock. that poor our man had to walk all that way with a box in his sock!
of course i said yes, i mean hello…we wouldnt be here if i said no. i know this might sound weird but after i said yes, i turned around because i thought for sure that someone was going to walk by and see but nope, no one. and i love that. i know im all about the pictures and getting the moment right but there is something about knowing that only nick and i were the only two who got to experience that moment.
and yes, we did celebrate with drinks, lunch and then went home to get more drinks, dinner and more drinks lol. we like drinks.
and thats it, seven years later and we are GETTING MARRIED…i love saying that 🙂 but off to wedding planning!